7 Steps
to a Peaceful heart after divorce

STEP SEVEN - POSSIBILITY

Possibility When the creative flow of energy comes from your core strentgh, your truth and authenic eyes, you've arrived at a place in your life where you can create your possibility.  Allow me to help you develop your Roadmap as a vehicle for change, to be used in everything you do ...

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STEP SIX - ALLOWING

Allowing Moving on and feeling good about change can be tricky.  The unconscious mind directs the brain flow to revert back to the old comfort zone.  The conscious mind wants to allow goodness and re-establishing your worthiness to feel good about moving on will depend on your support team, your ...

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STEP FIVE - MANIFESTATION

Manifestation This step normally takes alot of getting used to.  Sometimes you make choices that aren't in your best interest and sometimes you do.  In this course you will be directed through those forks in the road to make sure your choices are coming from your core strengths. Your core strength ...

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STEP FOUR - DETERMINATION

Determination Allow me to be your "determination" muscle!  Changing old habits and patterns takes patience, love and diligence.  The Roadmap flows like a magical dance between your head and your heart.  My support will enable you to heal, deal and feel your power building with each and every step.

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STEP THREE - AWARENESS

Awareness This next phase of your journey can be very exciting—and can also be scary. It truly depends on WHO you invite into your life to help you (or not).   The process of digging into the truth of who, what, where and why things are the way they are will bring ...

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STEP TWO - OPEN TO CHANGE

Open to Change This concept sounds simple and it actually IS simple, IF you’ve acknowledged that you are the only one in control of you, and that the events of your life are occurring because you’ve invited them to occur, then you can be open mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually to ...

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STEP ONE: RESPONSIBILITY

Responsibility and Acceptance Imagine that all of your past experiences have been created intentionally by you, the people who are in your life, the events that led you here. It all happened so you can find clarity; to give you an opportunity to discover how you generated the outcomes you are ...

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Divorce Facts

  • Divorce is challenging and can be extremely painful.
  • 60% of American’s divorce at least once in their lives.
  • It can take a long time to recover from the damage of divorce.
  • Grieving your marriage death takes time and patience.
  • A full array of emotions can wreak havoc on the mind, body & soul.
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FICO Scores

Fico scores are very important in your new life.   Fiscal responsibility during divorce will help you in the long run.  Your Fico Score is a measurement of your credit history and records within the U.S. credit systems.  I just checked my Fico score as I usually do around tax time and found the results, see photo.

If you’re in my membership, go to the Holistic Radio and listen to the Healthy Finances and keep integrating the programs 7 Steps to

* save money on attorney’s fees
* avoid going to court
* get your spouse to cooperate easier
* anger reduction techniques
* care for your children better

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Mixed up children of divorce

It’s inevitable!  Children can be pulled into the boxing ring of divorce, simple because the war zone of the pain of the couple breaking up.  While it may appear on the outside the family looks okay, maybe even great ~ on the inside their pain is being repressed.

In my 7 Step Divorce Course, you will honor the truth in a graceful and peaceful way, allowing your children to learn how to be truly expressive of their pain and their joy in life.

I’ll be speaking about this at the JCC in Boca Raton on May 3rd at 7PM.  Details – call 888-SELF-YOU.  Divorce Coaching   with Rabbi Melinda ~ 180% trust++

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Oy vey ~ a new day on the divorce path

Wonder when the bills will stop or when you will part the sea of confusion around your divorce?  You need only to stop what you are doing a few times a day and listen to my free Divorce Meditation until you can do it on your own.  Turning toxic emotions into healthy emotions takes a bit of courage and a dose of love.  By using my guided peaceful heart meditations, you will “part the red sea of blood (pardon the pun) from your heart to your brain.

May you be blessed with peace!

Om Shalom,

Rabbi Melinda’s Jewish Divorce Recovery is for all lost souls!

Formerly known as Melinda Freiman

Divorce Coaching through Wisdom

Divorce Coach who’s been there

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Divorce Wisdom Call

It’s hump day again and hopefully you are creating an internal weather as beautiful as the spring outside.  Divorce Wisdom Wednesday’s will help you plant the seed for your new garden ~ the garden within.  I look forward to hearing how my free Divorce meditation is effecting your landscape.  See you on the call!

Om Shalom,

Rabbi Melinda

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how to build a spiritual legacy

It was Mother’s Day 2008 (2 yrs. post divorce) and I asked my kids to build me a Facebook & Myspace because I knew that my ego was driving my spirit to do that which you now know to be my purpose.  My life before divorce was is pursuit of a spiritual path.  I had been raised “reform”, raised my kids “orthodox” and holistic healing or yoga was a part of my life.  After divorce, I let go of everything and it became clear to use my gifts on myself first and then those who would appreciate it!  Many of you will not understand how I do what I do because you are looking for something or avoiding something.  If you choose to work with me, I will show you how to build your spiritual legacy.  With Rabbi Melinda you will let the home of your heart fit in the truth of your ancestry in a new way.

Here’s a sampling of what you get:

Energy Healing ~ Tikkun Olam

Meditation  ~ Neshama

Cord Cutting ~ Brit

Rebirthing ~ Mikvah

Sex & Money ~ Kesef

Coaching ~ Emunah

Coming soon ~ additional details can be found at holisticrabbi.com

Peaceful blessings,

Rabbi Melinda

Jewish Divorce Recovery

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My Rabbi Shoes

As I step into my Rabbi shoes, my heart is at peace over the irony that the toxic thorn in the side of my former marriage would drive me SO FAR away from my core SELF.  I had sat in synagogue for over a dozen years in (perhaps unconsicous) prayer, like the majority of organized religion.  Enabling his behavior was my sickness and prayer/yoga/holistic healing was my “drug of choice”.  After seeking and scrounging and learning enough energy healing tools to fix the wounds of my body, which is still in process ~ holistic divorce ~ jewish divorce recovery ~ spiritual divorce ~ are the tools I will be blogging about on my new site (which will be linked up with this site).  As the old song goes:  We’ve only just begun!  Permit me to bring your search home…  Through the holistic world, the east, the west and back to the real you, the jew you (or not)!

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Healing Your Finances

Unless you’ve built yourself a nice career while married, sustenance will weigh significantly on your heart/mind during and after your divorce.  By societal standards, we’ve been defining who we are by how much money we make.  Break free from this “way of being” by challenging your heart, mind and soul to new ways of being, living and seeing life’s miracles.  In my divorce I chose to let go of our jewelry & coin business.  At first I was very scared, but I had also worked in Finance and began to add rituals to my life like mindful meditation for healing of my financial fear and slowly but surely worked my way through the insecurity to give you  Holistic Divorce Healing

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The 7 Steps to Holistic Divorce

What are the 7 Steps?

  1. Responsibility for our mistakes and be ~
  2. Open to new ideas which awaken your ~
  3. Awareness to build your ~
  4. Determination to  ~
  5. Manifest change as you ~
  6. Allow the purposeful  ~
  7. Possibilities into your life!

This is what I call the ROADMAP to your new life.  Use this and many of my transformational tools when you become a member

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